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But if you really must choose one, a refined dapper look can carry you over beyond your 40s and beyond

Mostly because I on a regular basis - in the non-menswear sphere - see black (often quite tight) jeans worn where a pair of dressier trousers probably would do the job better - that is with a black or brown Oxford shoe, a light blue or white dress shirt and perhaps even a jacket of some kind (often, if not always, navy or blue)

While it's important to avoid wearing white or anything that might upstage the bride, there are still plenty of colors to choose from

Neckline: Sweetheart Neckline

We love the look of these black Saint Laurent sandals paired with a casual beige dress its effortlessly chic, perfect for daytime drinking at a beach club and then heading out for the night